She’s a wreck inside.

She’s a wreck inside.

Extra Sugar

My boyfriend was being extra sweet today at school and I don’t fuckin’ know why. Should I be scared? Has he done something wrong? Or am I just bein’ attacked by paranoia straight in the fuckin’ face?

We are the cool kids.

We are the cool kids.

“Maybe home is nothing but two arms holding you tight when you’re at your worst.”

(Source: yarotica)

Now I know why he doesn’t call me ‘beautiful.’

And he will never call me ‘beautiful’ because he has his own definition of ‘beauty,’ and no, he’ll never change his views for me. I’ll always be fat and ugly. I will never be good enough. May I be fat or skinny, it’ll always matter to him. Unconditional love will never exist in his world.

i. Be sweet and caring. Be as sweet as the sugar and caring like a mother. She loves it when you’re sweet. She also loves it when she feels special because you care.

ii. Do simple and yet great things for her. Girls appreciate efforts, small or big. If she knew that it’s from the heart, she’ll be truly glad. Do simple things that makes her happy. Like making her smile, singing songs when she’s about to sleep at night and making her happy all the time.

iii. Be there when she said she’s okay. Don’t believe her when she tells you she’s okay. Let her cry in your shoulders and let her sadness fade away. Be there in times like this. These are the moments that she really needs you.

iv. Get along with her pranks and jokes. She loves it whenever you laughs at her silly jokes and you appreciate her efforts in making you smile.

v. Don’t get mad at her when she’s in her period. When a girl is in a period, the tendency is she’ll be moody and she’ll be easily mad at you. Don’t be mad at her. Just understand that it’s hard for a girl to be in a period. Just be with her all the time.

vi. Don’t flirt with girls. She hates it. She’s a girl. She have her insecurities. She hates it when you flirt with girls. It makes her feel that she’s not enough for you.

vii. Don’t leave her alone. When she says she can manage, don’t believe her. Girls hate it whenever they are left alone. Just stay by her side when you can. It doesn’t mean that you need to be in her side always. Just let her feel that you’re always with her. That’s enough.

viii. Love her as the way she is. Don’t let her change. Love her as the way she is now. Don’t tell her that she’s flawed. She’s a girl. She remember all the hurtful words you’ll say. Don’t ask her to change. Let her feel that she’s the most beautiful woman in the world. Let her feel that you’re sincere.

ix. Don’t let her cry always. She hates it. She really do. She hate it whenever her eyes become sore because of crying the whole night. Yes, it’s inevitable that you wouldn’t hurt her. But try not to. Try not to make her cry and try not to make her feel hurt. She may be strong outside but vulnerable inside. If you’ll make her cry, please do it out of sadness, not in pain.

x. Lastly, be yourself. It doesn’t matter if you’re imperfect or you’re flawed. It doesn’t matter if you’re not that good looking. If she loves you, she loves you. A girl doesn’t see imperfections once she loved you. In her eyes, you’re perfect. Be yourself. Don’t be afraid to make her see your vulnerable side too. Don’t be afraid of her. If she really loves you, she’ll accept you for who you are. A girl loves someone who is true to her. Just be true to her and nothing would matter anymore.

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